"Hi Chrystal, havnt seen u in the room,but came across u by accident,read some of your comments,am intrigued, contact me if you wish...  "

"its all really relative to where you at in life. if you in a happy place, or no gripe with women, then you dont look for flaws, but if you have had a bad experience, you tend to look for flaws in people, no matte what the sex. THe trick is finding…"

"what utter rubbish, your connection is with your boyfriend, why on earth would you want to confront the other woman its just plain childish, insecure. you need to deal with your boyfriend, why he betrayed your trust. and it takes two people to break…"

""love at first sight" its a phenomenon, yep it is. However its not techinically love, its hormonal. your/his/her pheromones, I think its similar to the way animals connect, they connect on a primal level, like smell, taste, etc. sadly most…"

"What utter hogwash."

"okay, this one needs some explaining, in simple words please, because now I'm intrigued."

"well said, fight the demon inside, fight that sexual crasy feeling, fight it hard. because there is something/someone more precious for you than someone elses. Karma has a wonderful way of coming back to bite you, yep i know that one too."

"dating a married man, you sell yourself short, totally short. i dated a married man, for almost a year i didnt know, but my gut told me something wasnt right, but i preferred to ignore because the bliss was wonderful, the sex amazing. i didnt want…"

"they do it because they can. no malice intended, they do it for various reasons, they currently bored, looking for somehting with a twist, a bit of danger, getting caught out, because they found a companion they can confide in, they doing something…"

"does your friend's opinions matter more to you than your own opinion of yourself. Sex is not something you take lightly just because everyone else is doing it, consider your body precious, let them laugh, years from now, when they have made…"

"its a deeper issue, lack of self love. We all want to be loved. want to feel cherished, we all want to feel special to someone, so we give of ourselves freely with the hope that that person we are giving ourselves to, will appreciate and cherish…"

"oh thats easy. tell yhim ou want to wait to see if the friendship will blossom into something more meaningful. wait 3 months, if he leaves then you know. if he really likes you then he was really interested in you and dont mind waiting. there was a…"

"what is real love, we would all love to believe that we will recognise true love or are we confusing the idea of loving someone, what we call "being in love" or infatuated. we crasy to think that love only comes once, by saying that we…"

"different strokes for different fokes. But I guess, there is a tendency by people and an expectation that when you go on a date, something has to give and usually, you have to give something of yourself. I think it boils down to personal ethics and…"