"I think the only problem with a majority (not all) of South Africans is that we like showimg off but at the same time we very stupid. We tend to think that we're always right & know everything but infact we know nothing.Because of our silly…"

"Kahle kahle why....why so much pregnancy among very (I mean very) young black gals out there. Is there a competotion or some sort of reward for whoever becomes "the youngest with the many (children of-cos)".Someone please fill me in."

"Life is an amazing thing.Life gives you whatever that you want or need. Life gives you opportunities, it gives you second chances and it gives to all of those who ask from it. Lets not confuse people with life.People & not life make things…"

"Thanks for a good discusion Helmer.Let me tell you something, it is not just here in these discussions but everywhere you go the only thing that we as young people talk about is men/women, sex, money and partying hard. For us talking about our…"

"Are you sure that what you really want from us is not access to our citizenship. Just be honest, it never kills anyone.And... you wouldn't.... dare..... try to use one of our sisters to get that now, would you???????Just curious... that's…"

"Girl please I don't even wanna go there......DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I'm still on a great mission of lettin' go after 5 years and it's sooooooooooooooo unbelievably hard.Honestly I'm no longer inlove with him but I just can't…"

"Man... what an interesting question BUT I must say it quiet difficult to unswer!!!I would definately change the family I was born in especially my dad. PLEASE do not judge cos I have been through a lot because of him & I believe that the reason…"

"I agree with NYSA. Oviously if you get in a relationship with a married person you will become SECOND BEST and that for me means wasting time and somehow being used to fill in whatever that person is not getting from the marriage.And that makes you…"

"I also wanna know WHY EXACTLY ON DA THIRD DATE?????Coz bra that's too soon.....I believe in takin your time and gettin' to know each other in order to avoid regrets afterwards. "

"would honest not be the best policy but in a way that would not hurt their feelings that is what one is trying to avoid. the must be other great things about him that you love would you throw all that away because of pride and what if you reaaly…"