Eish! Ladies and gents, I messed up big time. I am 23 and dating a woman in her 40's.The thing is that things wre going so well for us, we dated for a year and couple of months. things just went pear shaped when she hired a new helper. The helper is 21. The helper was so interested in me that,she wanted me badly. So one day,when I was alone with her(the helper), we were chatting, the next thing we ended having sex.So one day, I tried to call my woman, but I did not, so I called the helper to find out how is she, but, she was near my womwan talking about me loving her,blah,blah. The next thing my woman called, asked who did I call,I told her that it was a friend. The next thing we argued over the phone and just dumped me. I love my woman so, so much that I am willing to fight for her, to be with her. Yes I admit that I made the most biggest fuck up in the world and really regret it. I am so in the pain of losing the one I love dearly. It seems that I have been thrown in to the deep, murky waters of lust,confusion, hurt, dishonesty. I just wish I can tell her that I am so, so, sorry, and that I love her. The sex with the helper really made me lose the jewel that I love so much. What you would do in this situation? Fight till the bitter end or just give up the battle and accept that I have messed up this one? Please I need you advise.