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Permalink Reply by NYSA on November 17, 2009 at 17:10

hi elshe,you will get stronger every day,focus on your boys and it will make you positive and a stronger person,been cheated on is the most painful thing i ever experienced especially when he denies every thing,the pain we feel will add to our every day learning and chins up sis.....

Permalink Reply by Elshe van Vuuren on November 18, 2009 at 10:35

Hi There

Thank u for ur reply... Yes it did hurt at first but he got it back double!
The girl cheated on him 2. And went back to her husband. Im thankfull for the way my eyes opend. tho it did hurt. Me and the boys are growing stronger each day. Going better 2. Im happy with my life at the moment, My motto is dont do to others that u dont want to happen 2 u. Put others first. Enjoy live and live every moment!!!!!!
Regards Elshe

Permalink Reply by NYSA on December 10, 2009 at 21:10

That what you call KARMA..(every action has a reaction)...he deserves whats coming his way.......if he comes to you for sympathy,don't give in because this is the most comman reaction when they get ditched......
I like your motto,but when it comes to putting other people first,i think it should only be your sons and you at this moment,call it selfish...but it is realistic that when you in difficult times you will end up helping yourself!!!

Elshe van Vuuren said:

Hi There

Thank u for ur reply... Yes it did hurt at first but he got it back double!
The girl cheated on him 2. And went back to her husband. Im thankfull for the way my eyes opend. tho it did hurt. Me and the boys are growing stronger each day. Going better 2. Im happy with my life at the moment, My motto is dont do to others that u dont want to happen 2 u. Put others first. Enjoy live and live every moment!!!!!!
Regards Elshe

Permalink Reply by mandisa mabiya on January 4, 2010 at 16:04

i am going through a mad ragged relationship. i have a baby with my boyfriend which he doesn't support and hasn't seen since she was born. i was going thru a major breakdown which caused me 2 have high blood pressure. i thot about terminating the pregnancy, but had a little change of heart since i had bonded with the child. i cried myself to sleep every night hoping that things wud change with my boyfriend. oneday after the baby was born, i just had a feeling of relief as if non of these things had happened. God helped me to go thru all of these things and concentrate on raising my beautiful daughter. if i cud make it thru that,surely u wud recover fuly 4rm ur misery. u deserve better that that. it obviously shows that u wern't meant 4 each other. let God give u the right person next time.

Permalink Reply by Praz Shandu on March 31, 2011 at 12:29

Well, ain't life a B? The advent of having a person & another who are from different backgrounds, creed, upbringing, highly unsystematic with quite a range of leeway, it's quite almost impossible to form anything tangible relationship-wise cause the moment you meet...blah...consumate...blah...you create expectations and rules of a (note: not THE) game within such a relationship-unfriendly environment wherein you are still defining yourselves within the game...this is just disastrous since we are ever morphing, it is purely difficult

Permalink Reply by Praz Shandu on March 31, 2011 at 12:32

Elshe van Vuuren said:

Hi There

Thank u for ur reply... Yes it did hurt at first but he got it back double!
The girl cheated on him 2. And went back to her husband. Im thankfull for the way my eyes opend. tho it did hurt. Me and the boys are growing stronger each day. Going better 2. Im happy with my life at the moment, My motto is dont do to others that u dont want to happen 2 u. Put others first. Enjoy live and live every moment!!!!!!
Regards Elsheagaagain...what is cheating? Does a guy who look at another female passing cheating or intends to? When he exchanges numbers with a female, does he cheat or intends to? Chatting to females on the net, is it cheating? What constitutes cheating?