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Permalink Reply by Gisma on March 16, 2011 at 10:07

I dont have any advise for you....but to say I am in the same situation....I am married but fell in love with my girlfriend...I am struggling so much at the moment...I wish I knew what todo. I am leaning towards a divorce 

Permalink Reply by Cate on April 22, 2011 at 21:12

I don't think you need to use a word to define your sexuality. 'Love' goes beyond gender, and way beyond what we're taught the word means.

Permalink Reply by trutha2a on May 16, 2011 at 13:17

Go with what feels right with you right now. You may be in love with both of tham at the moment and I think it's no crime to love. Maybe you have an emotional connection with your girl and a more physical connection with your man. Explore your sexuality and have fun while doing it. If you love both sexes that a bonus.

Permalink Reply by Bel Swindoll on July 21, 2011 at 23:06

Hi, in my experience it is possible to love two people in that way- but it takes alot out of you.

I gave up on the feeling I had for my girlfriend since they were so destructive to my marriage. I have however chosen to continue exploring my sexuality with my husband, and contrary to popular belief it has brought us alot closer together.

Trust and respect is key!

I love the relationship we have now-

Life is a adventure!