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Why do ppl cheat? And y do girls cheet more often then guys?

I found out that my girl cheeted on me with a guy at a wedding she atended ofer the weekend. Y do thy do that?

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Permalink Reply by tendai james goremusandu on December 25, 2009 at 16:00
my man these things u canot controllit coz its the matters of the heat n when u thik u got the most beautyful girl u find another hot one n to your second ? its not for us to compare but the ones we hurt todo that as tey will say you guys u r doggs n all ladies r bitches
Permalink Reply by dineo diratsagae on December 27, 2009 at 15:32
there iz a difference it dependz hw the women feelz about herself and sumtimez itz about feelin insecure becoz alwayz when u worry abt ur guy u dnt knw watz his doing u jst think he iz playin you wit anada gal and sumtimez women d dat becoz they were once hurt deeply datz y
Permalink Reply by Niel Beneke on December 27, 2009 at 19:12
But y does she do it eventhough i have never given her reason to beleive tht im cheeting. I have never cheated and never will. It just hurts me so bad because i was going to prepose to her when she got back.

dineo diratsagae said:
there iz a difference it dependz hw the women feelz about herself and sumtimez itz about feelin insecure becoz alwayz when u worry abt ur guy u dnt knw watz his doing u jst think he iz playin you wit anada gal and sumtimez women d dat becoz they were once hurt deeply datz y
Permalink Reply by NYSA on December 28, 2009 at 6:27
Niel,firstly,you need to confront her about this in person,it is not wise to blame unless you have caught her on your own.
If it's true,this is a blessing in disguise not to persue with a life long commitment where honesty and loyalty is lacking.
In my opinion,both genders cheat and these cheaters NEED A WAKE UP CALL,as no reason for doing so is acceptable.

Niel Beneke said:
But y does she do it eventhough i have never given her reason to beleive tht im cheeting. I have never cheated and never will. It just hurts me so bad because i was going to prepose to her when she got back.

dineo diratsagae said:
there iz a difference it dependz hw the women feelz about herself and sumtimez itz about feelin insecure becoz alwayz when u worry abt ur guy u dnt knw watz his doing u jst think he iz playin you wit anada gal and sumtimez women d dat becoz they were once hurt deeply datz y
Permalink Reply by Niel Beneke on December 29, 2009 at 22:36
I have since left her so its ok. It just sucks

NYSA said:
Niel,firstly,you need to confront her about this in person,it is not wise to blame unless you have caught her on your own.
If it's true,this is a blessing in disguise not to persue with a life long commitment where honesty and loyalty is lacking.
In my opinion,both genders cheat and these cheaters NEED A WAKE UP CALL,as no reason for doing so is acceptable.

Niel Beneke said:
But y does she do it eventhough i have never given her reason to beleive tht im cheeting. I have never cheated and never will. It just hurts me so bad because i was going to prepose to her when she got back.

dineo diratsagae said:
there iz a difference it dependz hw the women feelz about herself and sumtimez itz about feelin insecure becoz alwayz when u worry abt ur guy u dnt knw watz his doing u jst think he iz playin you wit anada gal and sumtimez women d dat becoz they were once hurt deeply datz y
Permalink Reply by NYSA on December 29, 2009 at 23:01
You seem to be a great guy....you deserve the best and the decisions you make must be in your favour,,,,,which i know is not easy.... so hang in there and have faith bro......

Niel Beneke said:
I have since left her so its ok. It just sucks

NYSA said:
Niel,firstly,you need to confront her about this in person,it is not wise to blame unless you have caught her on your own.
If it's true,this is a blessing in disguise not to persue with a life long commitment where honesty and loyalty is lacking.
In my opinion,both genders cheat and these cheaters NEED A WAKE UP CALL,as no reason for doing so is acceptable.

Niel Beneke said:
But y does she do it eventhough i have never given her reason to beleive tht im cheeting. I have never cheated and never will. It just hurts me so bad because i was going to prepose to her when she got back.

dineo diratsagae said:
there iz a difference it dependz hw the women feelz about herself and sumtimez itz about feelin insecure becoz alwayz when u worry abt ur guy u dnt knw watz his doing u jst think he iz playin you wit anada gal and sumtimez women d dat becoz they were once hurt deeply datz y
Permalink Reply by JUSTIN on December 30, 2009 at 12:32
niel bra leave her ....if she done it once she'l definatley do it again
Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on January 4, 2010 at 18:33
Weddings are dangerous events. There should be a ban on it. Women go crazy. It's compettitive. They know some girl will get laid and want a piece of the action too. Not sure what happened in your case. Did they sakkie sakkie too close? Fell in the grass behind the open bar?

Hey, I'm sorry man, but it's a new year. Lighten up. There are many girls out there waiting for an oke like you. Keep the faith boet and don't go breaking hearts in revenge.
Permalink Reply by Lana Janse van Rensburg on January 4, 2010 at 23:21
Sometimes it feels like we're not appreciated anymore or we are to afraid of giving up the things we got so used to. If I didn't love my boyfriend as much as I do, I would've tried it this evening. I can't talk to him and it feels like we're drifting appart, I need security now and usually that's the case that often causes us to cheat, we find comfort in the arms of someone willing to listen.
Permalink Reply by fayroes on January 5, 2010 at 0:29
blah blah ...all the usual remarks and replies !!! you know what neil? maybe it is your fault that she cheated! did you ever think what you did or didn do to bring this on? did you treat her with the respect ,love, honesty and all that jazz? did you smile at her for no reason or just touched her face coz it felt so good at the time?did you tell her that she is amazing when she tried so hard to impress you and failed? or...did you get so comfy in your relationship that it totally SLIPPED your mind to appreciate what you had in this girl ? just think neil ,broe bra boet whatever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!it will come to you.


ps#being a woman inlove means to be desired loved wanted and yearned for by the person that makes you miss them even whilst being with them.complication is what makes us unique.trying to understand us will be a waste of time,coz even when you think you have us figured out............................................................................
then you have to start all over again coz the mistery is never ending.
Permalink Reply by NYSA on January 7, 2010 at 21:25
So why cheat,if a person is not satisfied with their partner...JUST LEAVE, stop hurting people.....

mathabo monaheng said:
Just ask urself why? Maybe its because of u!! she was not satisfied.

Niel Beneke said:
I have since left her so its ok. It just sucks

NYSA said:
Niel,firstly,you need to confront her about this in person,it is not wise to blame unless you have caught her on your own.
If it's true,this is a blessing in disguise not to persue with a life long commitment where honesty and loyalty is lacking.
In my opinion,both genders cheat and these cheaters NEED A WAKE UP CALL,as no reason for doing so is acceptable.

Niel Beneke said:
But y does she do it eventhough i have never given her reason to beleive tht im cheeting. I have never cheated and never will. It just hurts me so bad because i was going to prepose to her when she got back.

dineo diratsagae said:
there iz a difference it dependz hw the women feelz about herself and sumtimez itz about feelin insecure becoz alwayz when u worry abt ur guy u dnt knw watz his doing u jst think he iz playin you wit anada gal and sumtimez women d dat becoz they were once hurt deeply datz y
Permalink Reply by Dillon Naidoo on January 15, 2010 at 20:58
Aye, aye, aye!!! Thats where u are wrong uh luv...
If she cheated on u once then it will definately happen again, so save yourself and leave the person, 4 ur own good!!! Mwahs

Suanne Danielle Pillay said:
thats not always the case, usualy if one person in the relationship is cheating its beacause he/she feels that something is missing. for instance it may be that u never gve her enoug attention so she seeked it else where, or maybe she'e not ready for a serious relationship and still wants to have fun.

its very wrong for someone to just do those things to you, play/cheat on u, if they cant be in a relationship - why get into it to hurt the other person.

in my opinion u should ask her why did she do that? have a talk with her, if she really loves u she will change for u.
goodluck:)

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