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Why do married men cheat? Is it just aboutthe sex, or what is it actualy about?

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Why do married men cheat? Is it that they are not getting what they need at home? Come on guys I would REALLY like to understand why. Then again you get marrier woman who cheat as well, and to be honest I am not sure why woman cheat.

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Permalink Reply by NYSA on January 22, 2010 at 21:39
There are infinite reasons,why they cheat but one definate result is you will get caught.
Permalink Reply by zee on March 8, 2010 at 13:11
THEY CHEAT BECAUSE THEY CAN!!!
Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on March 8, 2010 at 18:02
There are as many reasons as there are married people. Generally men cheat, because they want more, better or exciting sex. Women cheat, because they want to be valued as more than a domestic and mother.

I seriously doubt if more people cheat today than before. Modern people are more stupid and therefore more likely to get caught. They are also less discreet.

Women are more mobile today and the internet opened possibilities.
Permalink Reply by Jay on March 9, 2010 at 7:17
There are just as many married woman cheating as there are men, the simple fact is people get into a slump, or the love disapears and because of kids, and the ammount of time you have been together, they, meaning men and woman, would rather cheat to get thier sexual kicks, than get divorced.

just get divorced, or open your mouth and say, "hey we used to shag 8 times a week, now im lucky if i get it twice a month!!!! if we dont sort this issue out, i think i may stray!!!!
Permalink Reply by rossi on March 9, 2010 at 7:59
I think people change as they get older, that which they are looking for, or need changes. I f the 2 parties start moving in different directions in life that is where the problem starts. It is not a male/ female thing it is in all of us. If we don't get what we want in life we will look somewhere else to find it. I agree completely with Jays opinion. We change jobs when we are not happy or friends, but unfortuneatly with marriage(especially when there are kids ) you can't just move,(even if you wanted to)
Permalink Reply by Vuvu Kay on March 9, 2010 at 8:13
the number one reason why men cheat is because there are women out there who are willing to cheat with him even though they know very well that he is married!! another reason why some men cheat is because they wana see if they will get caught or not and if they dont get busted then they just carry on for the fun of it!!! lets b honest tho cz women also cheat..
Permalink Reply by Savannah Lee on March 9, 2010 at 11:24
i think its about excitement. at home everything is usually hunkydory. its about opportunity presenting itself and having too much free time....
Permalink Reply by zee on March 9, 2010 at 15:07
it's not about discrimination Trevor. maybe Elize is asking men because she knows why she as a woman would cheat. just answer the question from a man's perspective. it's not that hard!!!

TREVOR said:
Discrimination rears it's ugly head again.Anyway Im not here to argue about that.Women also cheat so why not ask"why do married people cheat?" I never have cheated on my wife and never will.My wife is my life.Without her where would I be? I know why I got married and I remember the covenant I made between my wife and God the day I got married.
Permalink Reply by Masked on March 9, 2010 at 15:12
I believe that the man wants something that his wife can not or do not want to provide for him and the other woman do. You will also get the ones that only does it for the excitement of doing something they should not do.
Permalink Reply by zee on March 9, 2010 at 15:15
TRUE COZ A LOT OF MEN WHO HAVE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS WOULD STILL CHEAT!!! AND I DON'T BELEIVE WOMEN DO THAT. I THINK WE CHEAT BECAUSE WE ARE NOT HAPPY ABOUT SOMETHING OR WE FEEL NEGLECTED AND UNAPPRECIATED!!!

Masked said:
I believe that the man wants something that his wife can not or do not want to provide for him and the other woman do. You will also get the ones that only does it for the excitement of doing something they should not do.
Permalink Reply by Jay on March 9, 2010 at 15:29
I like the mid life crisis idea, gonna get a red sports car and a 21 year old. Fuck until i have a heart attack!!!!!

JP Du Plessis said:
1-LACK OF SEXUAL INTIMACY... Cheating is not always about having the money to entice a person to sleep with you, it’s about lust and fulfilling fantasies.

2-LACK OF EMOTIONAL INTIMACY...Married couples develop a silent form of communication between one another, but you can’t eliminate verbal communication from a relationship altogether. Couples who co-exist as if they were roommates are at risk for losing the friendship side of their relationship.

3-SEXUAL ADDICTION...Sexual addiction is one of the worst afflictions that a married person can possess. Someone with a sexual addiction craves different sexual partners and lots of sex, and it can be as hard an addiction to conquer as drinking or drug use.

4-MID-LIFE CRISIS AFFAIRS AND LIFESTYLE CHANGES....The severity of a mid-life crisis varies from person to person. Some men buy a fast sports car, some women rush out for plastic surgery, and some men and women stray from their relationships, often looking for a younger sexual partner to add some spice to their life. Remind them how much you love them, and be willing to be adventurous together. Instead of dreading aging, embrace and enjoy it together.
Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on March 10, 2010 at 19:23
Get the sports car or the Harley. It will be cheaper than the divorce and the hospital bill.

Jay said:
I like the mid life crisis idea, gonna get a red sports car and a 21 year old. Fuck until i have a heart attack!!!!!
JP Du Plessis said:
1-LACK OF SEXUAL INTIMACY... Cheating is not always about having the money to entice a person to sleep with you, it’s about lust and fulfilling fantasies.

2-LACK OF EMOTIONAL INTIMACY...Married couples develop a silent form of communication between one another, but you can’t eliminate verbal communication from a relationship altogether. Couples who co-exist as if they were roommates are at risk for losing the friendship side of their relationship. 3-SEXUAL ADDICTION...Sexual addiction is one of the worst afflictions that a married person can possess. Someone with a sexual addiction craves different sexual partners and lots of sex, and it can be as hard an addiction to conquer as drinking or drug use.

4-MID-LIFE CRISIS AFFAIRS AND LIFESTYLE CHANGES....The severity of a mid-life crisis varies from person to person. Some men buy a fast sports car, some women rush out for plastic surgery, and some men and women stray from their relationships, often looking for a younger sexual partner to add some spice to their life. Remind them how much you love them, and be willing to be adventurous together. Instead of dreading aging, embrace and enjoy it together.

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