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Read Alexander Lowen's book " LOVE AND ORGASM " if you can still find a copy in print. It will answer every question already raised on sex and relationships on Cooltown and probably a few more you still have to think about.

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.......thanks!,bodhidharma a good choice i must say,i am sure there will be a request for practical lessons to complete the essence of this book.
This is obviously from another book! Scatology got confused with sexology.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Hey, I thought you were going to begin with basic lessons, like a woman should always ensure that she slides the tissue with her left hand from the hind for the rear in a backward direction and from the front in a forward or upward direction. Sliding her tissue during the process of cleaning her rear in a forward direction leading to her grand honeycomb may result in infections.
Good advice provided you have a shower in the informal settlement. Otherwise you have to squat with the Prez.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Rinsing off sexual organs after having sex is another important hygienic practice just as it revives the pleasure in the second and third helping. Men should not do this immeidately as it has side effects that have not yet been described in detail. they should wait until they simmer down a little.
True, the basics of hygiene are lost. That's why I bow and not shake hands.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Yeah. Maybe true. It's like washing hands before meals. Some don't see the need to wash their hands before and after meals whilst others do. Whilst the former may have nothing to do with the latter, you must agree that they compliment each other.

bodhidharma said:
This is obviously from another book! Scatology got confused with sexology.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Hey, I thought you were going to begin with basic lessons, like a woman should always ensure that she slides the tissue with her left hand from the hind for the rear in a backward direction and from the front in a forward or upward direction. Sliding her tissue during the process of cleaning her rear in a forward direction leading to her grand honeycomb may result in infections.
The Shaitaan is spitting venom again. It sometimes takes control of the rational man.

This is again a classic case of projection. You know nothing about my personal life, but we do know that you are married to an unsuspecting woman/women hidden away somewhere while you cruise online for the very unhygienic non-muslim women you vocally detest. Like a certain prominent African traditionalist you obviously do not get enough at home and need to spice it up elsewhere. Practice what you preach, marry 4 women, be content or divorce them if you are not. Allah made the deen easy for you. Unless you are a Shia and practice religious sanctioned prostitution.

As for trying to box and classify me: Better taxonomists have tried. I am rooted in the soil of Africa and I am a citizen of the planet. I defy all labels!

I am proud to be a literate African. After all we wrote on walls and produced paper for writing. If you want to hide something from an African, put it in a book! It is disgusting when an African and a muslim rejects knowledge.

As for India: They have a billion more problems than Africa. African liberation is indebted to Gandhiji who showed the world that a black man can overthrow a superpower. His struggle which started in SA motivated Martin Luther King jr. African independence followed soon after he weakened the colonial power of Britain.

As for your favourite topic: Yogis have used rope, wool and water to clean their rectums for millennia. I fail to get what a squeaky clean sphincter has to do with anything. It's probably important if you like probing it with your digits or dick. There's the law and the letter of the law. A clean mouth and nose are more important. I see North and East African muslims spitting on the pavement everyday. It's an even bigger pastime in Arab countries. Now we all know how many germs are in peoples mouths.

I am here to make people think and I am prepared to force them if I have to. READ as the prophet of Allah said, and reflect on the signs of your Creator!

AbuHishaam SS said:
Let's face it, sex occupies your mind more than anything else under the sun. You must be one of those nerds whose noses are buried into books and glued to the computer screen and who masturbate and watch blue movies for sexual satisfaction. If there's you need to do is mend your manners and attitude and maybe you may be lucky to get a girlfriend.
You seem to be hung up on the old apartheid system and classification of races as i gather from your constant habit of making discriminatory and derogatory statements about blacks and their living conditions. Your indian brothers and sisters who make babies like flies and roaches in your overpopulated india are in no better position.

bodhidharma said:
Good advice provided you have a shower in the informal settlement. Otherwise you have to squat with the Prez.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Rinsing off sexual organs after having sex is another important hygienic practice just as it revives the pleasure in the second and third helping. Men should not do this immeidately as it has side effects that have not yet been described in detail. they should wait until they simmer down a little.
These forums never fail to expose the psychopathology of contributors.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Your personal life is written all over Cooltown and only wasim knows where else? You suddenly a global citizen and proud African? That's what I call escapism. Between you and me stands the sky and the Indian ocean, for you to level up to me in any way you will have to try reaching for the stars. I strongly suggest you head for the Indian ocean, where you rightfully belong.

bodhidharma said:
The Shaitaan is spitting venom again. It sometimes takes control of the rational man.

This is again a classic case of projection. You know nothing about my personal life, but we do know that you are married to an unsuspecting woman/women hidden away somewhere while you cruise online for the very unhygienic non-muslim women you vocally detest. Like a certain prominent African traditionalist you obviously do not get enough at home and need to spice it up elsewhere. Practice what you preach, marry 4 women, be content or divorce them if you are not. Allah made the deen easy for you. Unless you are a Shia and practice religious sanctioned prostitution.

As for trying to box and classify me: Better taxonomists have tried. I am rooted in the soil of Africa and I am a citizen of the planet. I defy all labels!

I am proud to be a literate African. After all we wrote on walls and produced paper for writing. If you want to hide something from an African, put it in a book! It is disgusting when an African and a muslim rejects knowledge.

As for India: They have a billion more problems than Africa. African liberation is indebted to Gandhiji who showed the world that a black man can overthrow a superpower. His struggle which started in SA motivated Martin Luther King jr. African independence followed soon after he weakened the colonial power of Britain.

As for your favourite topic: Yogis have used rope, wool and water to clean their rectums for millennia. I fail to get what a squeaky clean sphincter has to do with anything. It's probably important if you like probing it with your digits or dick. There's the law and the letter of the law. A clean mouth and nose are more important. I see North and East African muslims spitting on the pavement everyday. It's an even bigger pastime in Arab countries. Now we all know how many germs are in peoples mouths.

I am here to make people think and I am prepared to force them if I have to. READ as the prophet of Allah said, and reflect on the signs of your Creator!

AbuHishaam SS said:
Let's face it, sex occupies your mind more than anything else under the sun. You must be one of those nerds whose noses are buried into books and glued to the computer screen and who masturbate and watch blue movies for sexual satisfaction. If there's you need to do is mend your manners and attitude and maybe you may be lucky to get a girlfriend.
You seem to be hung up on the old apartheid system and classification of races as i gather from your constant habit of making discriminatory and derogatory statements about blacks and their living conditions. Your indian brothers and sisters who make babies like flies and roaches in your overpopulated india are in no better position.

bodhidharma said:
Good advice provided you have a shower in the informal settlement. Otherwise you have to squat with the Prez.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Rinsing off sexual organs after having sex is another important hygienic practice just as it revives the pleasure in the second and third helping. Men should not do this immeidately as it has side effects that have not yet been described in detail. they should wait until they simmer down a little.
You obviously don't get it and who am I to argue with someone who is delusional. This is a free forum. Ever heard of democracy? Free speech? Indaba? Ashura? Mental exploration is not very high on your list of endeavours.

Unlike yourself I'm not a Mother Grundy with my knickers in a knot. I have answered most topics on this forum. ( Since 99% is about sex, go figure ) Sometimes serious, sometimes in jest. It takes a measure of intelligence to figure out which is which. I also hijack topics. A technique many others have copied with some success.

Most cooltowners are satisfied and if they are not that's cool too. The only ones with a problem are religious bigots, hypocrites, mysogynists, homophobes, nazis and fascists. There is a place for them too on the planet, but on this forum they will be cut down to size.

My friend if you have a comeback, please let us have it. I am still waiting to see what you are capable of. I don't get impressed easily!

AbuHishaam SS said:
“If you can’t stick the heat, get out of the kitchen!” Before you start playing Shrink, you should give one a visit as I see how you keep tripping into perverted discussions—hook, line & sinker—like Trevor's infamous “Perverts Only" to which you are a prime candidate and leading member, "Who wants Phone Sex" to which you became the very first customer, and every other Porno Forum that comes up in Cooltown, now this. So if there’s anyone who definitely needs a checkup from the neck up, it’s you dude.

bodhidharma said:
These forums never fail to expose the psychopathology of contributors.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Your personal life is written all over Cooltown and only wasim knows where else? You suddenly a global citizen and proud African? That's what I call escapism. Between you and me stands the sky and the Indian ocean, for you to level up to me in any way you will have to try reaching for the stars. I strongly suggest you head for the Indian ocean, where you rightfully belong.

bodhidharma said:
The Shaitaan is spitting venom again. It sometimes takes control of the rational man.

This is again a classic case of projection. You know nothing about my personal life, but we do know that you are married to an unsuspecting woman/women hidden away somewhere while you cruise online for the very unhygienic non-muslim women you vocally detest. Like a certain prominent African traditionalist you obviously do not get enough at home and need to spice it up elsewhere. Practice what you preach, marry 4 women, be content or divorce them if you are not. Allah made the deen easy for you. Unless you are a Shia and practice religious sanctioned prostitution.

As for trying to box and classify me: Better taxonomists have tried. I am rooted in the soil of Africa and I am a citizen of the planet. I defy all labels!

I am proud to be a literate African. After all we wrote on walls and produced paper for writing. If you want to hide something from an African, put it in a book! It is disgusting when an African and a muslim rejects knowledge.

As for India: They have a billion more problems than Africa. African liberation is indebted to Gandhiji who showed the world that a black man can overthrow a superpower. His struggle which started in SA motivated Martin Luther King jr. African independence followed soon after he weakened the colonial power of Britain.

As for your favourite topic: Yogis have used rope, wool and water to clean their rectums for millennia. I fail to get what a squeaky clean sphincter has to do with anything. It's probably important if you like probing it with your digits or dick. There's the law and the letter of the law. A clean mouth and nose are more important. I see North and East African muslims spitting on the pavement everyday. It's an even bigger pastime in Arab countries. Now we all know how many germs are in peoples mouths.

I am here to make people think and I am prepared to force them if I have to. READ as the prophet of Allah said, and reflect on the signs of your Creator!

AbuHishaam SS said:
Let's face it, sex occupies your mind more than anything else under the sun. You must be one of those nerds whose noses are buried into books and glued to the computer screen and who masturbate and watch blue movies for sexual satisfaction. If there's you need to do is mend your manners and attitude and maybe you may be lucky to get a girlfriend.
You seem to be hung up on the old apartheid system and classification of races as i gather from your constant habit of making discriminatory and derogatory statements about blacks and their living conditions. Your indian brothers and sisters who make babies like flies and roaches in your overpopulated india are in no better position.

bodhidharma said:
Good advice provided you have a shower in the informal settlement. Otherwise you have to squat with the Prez.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Rinsing off sexual organs after having sex is another important hygienic practice just as it revives the pleasure in the second and third helping. Men should not do this immeidately as it has side effects that have not yet been described in detail. they should wait until they simmer down a little.
The search is still on for wasim. I suggest that next time you see a pretty woman, lose your eyes in the valley of her bosom, get them scratched by her pubes and swallowed by her labia, you blame AbuHishaam and not an imaginary wasim.

Let wasim take his rightful place among the tooth fairy, santa clause, easter bunny, leprechauns and the tokoloshe.

AbuHishaam SS said:
You suffer from verbal Diarrhea. Poor thing.

bodhidharma said:
You obviously don't get it and who am I to argue with someone who is delusional. This is a free forum. Ever heard of democracy? Free speech? Indaba? Ashura? Mental exploration is not very high on your list of endeavours.

Unlike yourself I'm not a Mother Grundy with my knickers in a knot. I have answered most topics on this forum. ( Since 99% is about sex, go figure ) Sometimes serious, sometimes in jest. It takes a measure of intelligence to figure out which is which. I also hijack topics. A technique many others have copied with some success.

Most cooltowners are satisfied and if they are not that's cool too. The only ones with a problem are religious bigots, hypocrites, mysogynists, homophobes, nazis and fascists. There is a place for them too on the planet, but on this forum they will be cut down to size.

My friend if you have a comeback, please let us have it. I am still waiting to see what you are capable of. I don't get impressed easily!

AbuHishaam SS said:
“If you can’t stick the heat, get out of the kitchen!” Before you start playing Shrink, you should give one a visit as I see how you keep tripping into perverted discussions—hook, line & sinker—like Trevor's infamous “Perverts Only" to which you are a prime candidate and leading member, "Who wants Phone Sex" to which you became the very first customer, and every other Porno Forum that comes up in Cooltown, now this. So if there’s anyone who definitely needs a checkup from the neck up, it’s you dude.

bodhidharma said:
These forums never fail to expose the psychopathology of contributors.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Your personal life is written all over Cooltown and only wasim knows where else? You suddenly a global citizen and proud African? That's what I call escapism. Between you and me stands the sky and the Indian ocean, for you to level up to me in any way you will have to try reaching for the stars. I strongly suggest you head for the Indian ocean, where you rightfully belong.

bodhidharma said:
The Shaitaan is spitting venom again. It sometimes takes control of the rational man.

This is again a classic case of projection. You know nothing about my personal life, but we do know that you are married to an unsuspecting woman/women hidden away somewhere while you cruise online for the very unhygienic non-muslim women you vocally detest. Like a certain prominent African traditionalist you obviously do not get enough at home and need to spice it up elsewhere. Practice what you preach, marry 4 women, be content or divorce them if you are not. Allah made the deen easy for you. Unless you are a Shia and practice religious sanctioned prostitution.

As for trying to box and classify me: Better taxonomists have tried. I am rooted in the soil of Africa and I am a citizen of the planet. I defy all labels!

I am proud to be a literate African. After all we wrote on walls and produced paper for writing. If you want to hide something from an African, put it in a book! It is disgusting when an African and a muslim rejects knowledge.

As for India: They have a billion more problems than Africa. African liberation is indebted to Gandhiji who showed the world that a black man can overthrow a superpower. His struggle which started in SA motivated Martin Luther King jr. African independence followed soon after he weakened the colonial power of Britain.

As for your favourite topic: Yogis have used rope, wool and water to clean their rectums for millennia. I fail to get what a squeaky clean sphincter has to do with anything. It's probably important if you like probing it with your digits or dick. There's the law and the letter of the law. A clean mouth and nose are more important. I see North and East African muslims spitting on the pavement everyday. It's an even bigger pastime in Arab countries. Now we all know how many germs are in peoples mouths.

I am here to make people think and I am prepared to force them if I have to. READ as the prophet of Allah said, and reflect on the signs of your Creator!

AbuHishaam SS said:
Let's face it, sex occupies your mind more than anything else under the sun. You must be one of those nerds whose noses are buried into books and glued to the computer screen and who masturbate and watch blue movies for sexual satisfaction. If there's you need to do is mend your manners and attitude and maybe you may be lucky to get a girlfriend.
You seem to be hung up on the old apartheid system and classification of races as i gather from your constant habit of making discriminatory and derogatory statements about blacks and their living conditions. Your indian brothers and sisters who make babies like flies and roaches in your overpopulated india are in no better position.

bodhidharma said:
Good advice provided you have a shower in the informal settlement. Otherwise you have to squat with the Prez.

AbuHishaam SS said:
Rinsing off sexual organs after having sex is another important hygienic practice just as it revives the pleasure in the second and third helping. Men should not do this immeidately as it has side effects that have not yet been described in detail. they should wait until they simmer down a little.
Back to the real topic. The 1964 book mentioned above explains many of the questions on this site very well. This could mean two things. The Freudian psychiatrist, Alexander Lowen is brilliant or we are a few decades behind the rest of the civilised world when it gets to sex and relationships.

Do yourself a favour. Read it!
It is only friendly fire. My brother AbuHishaam represents the worst of African traditionalism, Islam and Western patriarchy. He feels most secure in his cocoon backed by three powerful ideologies which are on their back feet.

When his cage get rattled, he quotes sermons verbatim, resorts to verbal abuse or he wimpers in a corner, trying to elicit sympathy from an audience.

What he doesn't realise is that I have a black belt in the Black Adder style of insult that will make a Tory politician wince and a British tabloid journalist cry in his beer!

Donna said:
Damn and i thought women were bitches!!! You guys are just too cool ;)
Is this another underhanded ( pardon the pun ) attempt to insult the ladies?

AbuHishaam SS said:
Hey, I thought you were going to begin with basic lessons, like a woman should always ensure that she slides the tissue with her left hand from the hind for the rear in a backward direction and from the front in a forward or upward direction. Sliding her tissue during the process of cleaning her rear in a forward direction leading to her grand honeycomb may result in infections.
I was right again. You are a fire and brimstone preacher. Minister Farakhan and the honourable Elijah Muhammad will approve.

Let's leave the cults for a moment and get back to real religion: No man knows another's status with his Lord. You will never make everybody believe in the same way. Better to vie with each other in good works and let God be the judge between you.

AbuHishaam SS said:
“From mankind are those who will impress you with their flowery speech concerning this worldly life and will summon God to be witness to what is in his heart whilst he remains the vilest foe. No sooner he turns on his heels he moves on across the land with his endeavors to cause mischief and corruption therein in aid of destroying cultivated crops and linage. And Allah loves not corruption. Then when it is said to him: “Fear God!” He sinfully becomes puffed with haughtiness and pride! Hell will suffice him as his suitable abode!”
bodhidharma said:
It is only friendly fire. My brother AbuHishaam represents the worst of African traditionalism, Islam and Western patriarchy. He feels most secure in his cocoon backed by three powerful ideologies which are on their back feet.

When his cage get rattled, he quotes sermons verbatim, resorts to verbal abuse or he wimpers in a corner, trying to elicit sympathy from an audience.

What he doesn't realise is that I have a black belt in the Black Adder style of insult that will make a Tory politician wince and a British tabloid journalist cry in his beer!

Donna said:
Damn and i thought women were bitches!!! You guys are just too cool ;)

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