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Is it ever too much?

When is the line drawn for having too much sex...we are animals and its our nature to have sex but sociaty has put a tag that if a person is too sexually active ( if u get such a thing) then they are degraded apon for example calling a girl a slut or a hoe....As long as both people walk away satisfied with how,where,when and with WHO the've had intercause with and feel that they need some more weather its from someone else......U can never get tooo much sex! Right!?

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Permalink Reply by NYSA on February 9, 2010 at 2:49pm: As always it is an individual approach to life,if one aims for QUALITY of sex rather than QUANTITY one does not need to draw the line since you need to respect yourself by choosing when,where and whom to have sex with.
Having sex just for the sake of having it will obviously leave you wanting more and unsatisfied thus making you go from partner to partner.
It is advisable for one to explore the emotional benifits of ones love making rather than JUST SEX.....to reach the goal of BEEN CONTENT; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by cuzcolema on February 9, 2010 at 4:28pm: wel i think toomuch sex is not healthy. i mean wen people make luv they myk sure it is satisfying so that the next tym u myk luv it is more organizd and scheduled. allow ur body sum tym to mis it coz by the time u hav it it wil be worth the waitin and the pleasure. so yes there sex can be too much; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Timothy Agang on February 9, 2010 at 4:47pm: may i pose a q! u do like neh??? its not BAD i like it too. i dnt mind morning aftyenoon even have it for supper hey s long s the giver knows her story....; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on February 9, 2010 at 5:53pm: Never! Just ask Tiger Woods and Jacob Zuma. In the psychological literature we talk about satyriasis and nymphomania. A new term is sex addiction.

Having a lot of sex and enjoying it is not a problem. When you take unnecessary risks like multiple partners, no condoms, not caring about your reputation and the experience leaves you dissatisfied and craving for more, then you have a problem.

If your question is personal then I think that you are already on a slippery slope. What you regard as sex may be nothing but mutual masturbation. Two people just using each other to get off. That would indeed be animal sex and there is so much more to it.

I think that there's more behind this. Perhaps you should talk to someone.

Stay safe and at least try to limit your partners.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mihle on February 9, 2010 at 7:45pm: I am very happy with all the answers and comments that I've recieved so far and glad to see that people have such possitve views especially from the guys..times have changed and the more careful and resposible people the better...at times guys tend to the think more with there dicks then their heads and hearts...so far so good!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by NYSA on February 10, 2010 at 1:36pm: Mihle,been a woman requires her to respect her body and in return she must demand that a man also respects her body.
Well !!!!!,to help the men to start thinking with their heads and heart rather than their dicks we as woman hold the truimp card of changing that by not been so readily avalible...for the WHAM BANGS!!!! ,one night stands,casual sex and sex outside a relationship.
A womans pride is her body and personality....with both she WILL achieve JOY!!
Mihle said:
I am very happy with all the answers and comments that I've recieved so far and glad to see that people have such possitve views especially from the guys..times have changed and the more careful and resposible people the better...at times guys tend to the think more with there dicks then their heads and hearts...so far so good!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on February 10, 2010 at 4:13pm: You are always guaranteed a comment around here, whether it makes you happy or not. Some of us guys have big organs ( brains ) and know how to use it.

Mihle said:
I am very happy with all the answers and comments that I've recieved so far and glad to see that people have such possitve views especially from the guys..times have changed and the more careful and resposible people the better...at times guys tend to the think more with there dicks then their heads and hearts...so far so good!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Koena on February 11, 2010 at 10:10pm: I can never have enough, I dont even know where is the line. Is that how you feel Mihle. If that is the case, then me and you should talk in private.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by mike on February 12, 2010 at 12:55pm: wait till u have HIV then u know; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mr swagger on February 12, 2010 at 2:46pm: qustion is DO U GET ENAF and is it enough the " way u geting it " >??; ▶ Reply to This