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how can you fix the broken heart?

i m seriously in pain of the broken heart,how can i fix it?

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Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on February 1, 2010 at 6:05pm

Listen to the people above. Stay on CT, read the forums ( it should make you laugh ), go in the chat room and you will wet yourself.

Seriously, if you are down, talk to someone you can trust. Even if not about what happened, stay in touch with other people.

Tomorrow is a brand new day!

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Permalink Reply by NYSA on February 1, 2010 at 6:09pm

firstly you will need to accept the reason/s that lead to this broken heart and maybe take time alone to gather your thoughts and mourn the love lost,unfortunately the pain is a reminder that this love did exist and will ease off with time,remember that as each day passes it will be less painfull even though you may not notice it.

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Permalink Reply by kagiso khunwane on February 2, 2010 at 3:15pm

thanx to you guyz for the advices,i feel much better now and thanx again cheers guyz ,GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

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Permalink Reply by NYSA on February 2, 2010 at 3:41pm

you welcome...bro...take care

kagiso khunwane said:

thanx to you guyz for the advices,i feel much better now and thanx again cheers guyz ,GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

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Permalink Reply by cinamon on February 12, 2010 at 5:20pm

Kagiso, I am with you. I lost the most wonderful husban in the world just over a year ago. But there is nothing on earth to bring back the dead, so I moved on only to get disappointed again. A month ago I broke an engagement. BUT I thank God every day that I have been spared of more misery had I gone ahead with the marriage. I have been spared of possibly losing everything else I own. I have been spared of moving miles from my family. I have been spared of a whole lot of issues which cannot be listed here. I am grateful. Just think about the good that will come out of the bad. We grow strength from our misfortunes and do you know what?.......... we can become wiser if we really want to see ourselves progress. Just get out of that dark hole, take a good friend with you and move on, start living again. Memories will come and go and they can slice deeply, BUT the success of a man is not measured by how high he climbs, but by how quickly he gets up after a fall. Sometimes you don't know the answers to your questions. That is ok, start asking new questions. Good luck my friend, as you keep learning from your past.