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What would you do if you're lecturer/teacher tickles your fancy and you just can't stop thiking bout him/her? Would you act on that impulsiveness or just let go? Remember that person is like a magnet...

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Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on May 19, 2009 at 18:41
No harm done if it's only your fancy he/she tickles. Crushes on teachers and lecturers are part of growing up. We've all had them since primary school. It's natural. Acting on it is a different matter. If love develops then you should rather wait until you finished the course, change courses or tertiary institutions.

It's just too complicated. Even if you are a brilliant student, there will always be question marks about your results. It's unfair to all the parties involved.
Permalink Reply by Mona Lisa on July 5, 2011 at 10:42

You can secretly admirer the teacher/ lecturer and treasure it just as a thought. (Which I hope it is) That will stay as just a dream.. Or you can really do something about it. When doing something about it, you have to find out if the feeling is mutual. If thats the case, there you go! If not step back..

 

But should you both feel the same way, you have to keep it a secret. That is not decent to have a relationship with your teacher or lecturer. That can cause major trouble for the both of you. Better would be if you wait till you are finished with your course.

Permalink Reply by Mona Lisa on July 5, 2011 at 13:03
Hmm.. Dont we all sometimes have crushes on our teachers.. Same with me.. Luckily I was then just a school kid with a pounding heart. Strange hey, when became an adult one feels foolish by the thought when meeting him again in the real world.. But it stil is a nice feeling isnt it?

Nick said:
Better to keep it a fantacy..lol..i had a crush on my eng teacher..she was stunning..but i never would have dreamt of telling her

mona lisa said:

You can secretly admirer the teacher/ lecturer and treasure it just as a thought. (Which I hope it is) That will stay as just a dream.. Or you can really do something about it. When doing something about it, you have to find out if the feeling is mutual. If thats the case, there you go! If not step back..

 

But should you both feel the same way, you have to keep it a secret. That is not decent to have a relationship with your teacher or lecturer. That can cause major trouble for the both of you. Better would be if you wait till you are finished with your course.

Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on July 5, 2011 at 17:17
Part of life. Like I told a mother of a teenage boy, " You should be more worried if he doesn't drool over the sexy young teacher"
Permalink Reply by Mona Lisa on July 6, 2011 at 9:21
Ha, ha!!!!! No comment Nick!!!! Dodhidharma, absolutely agree with you.. Thinking of it.. Where did you find your name? It is rare..Does it have any meaning?
Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on July 6, 2011 at 17:25
Bodhidharma was Buddhist monk and missionary from India. A very fierce fellow who went to China to spread Buddhism. He is the father of Chinese Buddhism and by extension also Korean and Japanese Buddhism, the most famous being Zen. Bodhidharma is also said to be the founder of Shaolin kung fu. This is not so easy to prove historically though! He did teach a serious of exercises some of which martial artists still use today. It's called Daruma Taiso in Japanese and I know it. I'm also a Buddhist.

mona lisa said:
Ha, ha!!!!! No comment Nick!!!! Dodhidharma, absolutely agree with you.. Thinking of it.. Where did you find your name? It is rare..Does it have any meaning?
Permalink Reply by Mona Lisa on July 7, 2011 at 11:40
Hmmm... Very interesting! Maybe I must go google it.. I like stuff like that. Do know anything about Martial Arts, and all those thing that these people can do? Does it mean that you are not a Christian? If you do not mind me asking..Okay, I am asking a lot of questions and you really do not need to answer, but Hey, its not like I know you or the other way around, I am really curious that all.

bodhidharma said:
Bodhidharma was Buddhist monk and missionary from India. A very fierce fellow who went to China to spread Buddhism. He is the father of Chinese Buddhism and by extension also Korean and Japanese Buddhism, the most famous being Zen. Bodhidharma is also said to be the founder of Shaolin kung fu. This is not so easy to prove historically though! He did teach a serious of exercises some of which martial artists still use today. It's called Daruma Taiso in Japanese and I know it. I'm also a Buddhist.

mona lisa said:
Ha, ha!!!!! No comment Nick!!!! Dodhidharma, absolutely agree with you.. Thinking of it.. Where did you find your name? It is rare..Does it have any meaning?
Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on July 8, 2011 at 17:07
Please do. I'm a lifelong practitioner of Japanese knockdown karate and know a little about other martial arts. You can ask me whatever you like.

mona lisa said:
Hmmm... Very interesting! Maybe I must go google it.. I like stuff like that. Do know anything about Martial Arts, and all those thing that these people can do? Does it mean that you are not a Christian? If you do not mind me asking..Okay, I am asking a lot of questions and you really do not need to answer, but Hey, its not like I know you or the other way around, I am really curious that all.

bodhidharma said:
Bodhidharma was Buddhist monk and missionary from India. A very fierce fellow who went to China to spread Buddhism. He is the father of Chinese Buddhism and by extension also Korean and Japanese Buddhism, the most famous being Zen. Bodhidharma is also said to be the founder of Shaolin kung fu. This is not so easy to prove historically though! He did teach a serious of exercises some of which martial artists still use today. It's called Daruma Taiso in Japanese and I know it. I'm also a Buddhist.

mona lisa said:
Ha, ha!!!!! No comment Nick!!!! Dodhidharma, absolutely agree with you.. Thinking of it.. Where did you find your name? It is rare..Does it have any meaning?
Permalink Reply by Mona Lisa on January 27, 2012 at 17:43
Hmmm. And its a few months later. Back to the topic: Dangerous grounds. its playing with fire to have a crush on a teacher or lecturer and he or she has the same feeling. That's not allowed. But if its serious, what can one do? Matters of the heart is allways difficult especially when its forbidden.
Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on January 27, 2012 at 20:15

It all depends on where the "fancy" is located.

Permalink Reply by Mona Lisa on January 28, 2012 at 10:25
Hmmm, true.You are a teacher as well, how do you deal with crushes from your female students? And how do you feel when you know that you are the object of a beautiful young girl fantacy? What is the rules regarding that?
Permalink Reply by bodhidharma on January 30, 2012 at 15:32

Some dudes are into pain.

Jupiter said:

I had a crush on my English teacher, eish she was beautiful, but she was scary too, she smacked harder than the male teacher did!

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